For many accounting firm owners, success is a lonely path. Even as revenue grows, teams expand, and client bases strengthen, the weight of daily decisions—capacity planning, strategic pivots, team management—rests squarely on their shoulders. Casual networking and brief connections rarely offer the deep support needed to navigate these unique challenges.
In a recent episode of Who’s Really the BOSS?, hosts Rachel and Marcus Dillon interviewed Ben Gabriel, a former technology consultant and current mastermind group facilitator with over 20 years in the accounting industry. Ben shared a compelling alternative: structured peer support. Unlike traditional networking, these groups foster ongoing, committed relationships where firm owners share their struggles, celebrate successes, and access the wisdom of peers who truly understand their journey. These groups transform professional growth from a solitary pursuit into a collaborative journey, providing a framework for achieving sustainable success without sacrificing values or vision.
Moving Beyond Networking to Structured Support
Professional growth requires more than occasional networking. As Marcus reflects, “These groups were the highlight of my week, my months, sometimes just a season of life—to be surrounded by peers who, while not going through the exact same thing, are facing similar challenges.”
Collective by DBA offers structured peer support at three distinct levels of engagement. The first level, Collective Community, involves self-guided improvement, where firm owners work through challenges independently using resources within the online community. The second level introduces peer groups, Collective Forums, fostering monthly interaction and shared experiences. The third and highest level, Collective Advisory, involves one-on-one advisory relationships that provide focused guidance and accountability.
Unlike casual meetups or networking events, structured peer groups prioritize consistent, in-depth engagement. Each session opens with members sharing a recent success and a pressing challenge, creating a supportive environment where members can reflect on progress and receive constructive input. As Ben explains, the power of these groups comes from the continuous nature of the relationship, which extends beyond monthly meetings to include group chats, direct messaging, and online forums for real-time feedback and support.
Creating Safe Spaces for Honest Conversations
Structured peer groups excel at fostering psychological safety, allowing members to share personal and professional challenges openly. Rachel highlights the importance of this, admitting, “I get nervous to share things that are personal or that carry a lot of value for me.” This sentiment likely resonates with many firm owners, who may hesitate to share financial or operational details.
Marcus agrees, “For accountants, sharing financials is intimate. To others, it may seem mundane, but for us, it’s deeply personal.”
However, over time, members build a foundation of trust. Unlike traditional gatherings where vulnerability may feel risky, the recurring nature of structured peer groups allows members to form meaningful bonds, knowing their peers understand the nuanced challenges of running an accounting firm. This creates a space where members receive not just quick fixes but thoughtful, experience-based insights.
Leveraging Collective Wisdom for Complex Problems
One significant benefit of structured peer support is the collective problem-solving that arises, especially when dealing with complex issues like capacity planning or burnout.
Marcus describes burnout as “a misalignment between work and passion. If your work involves tax returns but you dislike tax, you’ll feel burnout no matter your workload.” Structured groups encourage firm owners to explore deeper causes of burnout, like misaligned values or unfulfilling tasks, rather than just focusing on time management.
Rachel echoes this, suggesting a practical approach: “Start by identifying what you don’t like and remove those elements. Whether that’s exiting non-ideal clients or delegating tasks, it creates space for alignment with your goals.” These discussions lead to actionable strategies that members can adapt based on real-world experiences, transforming burnout from an isolated issue into a shared learning opportunity.
Structured groups also allow members to benefit from the experience of peers. Members may exchange insights on hiring virtual assistants, implementing new technologies, or refining service offerings. By learning from others who’ve already navigated similar transitions, firm owners can make more confident, informed decisions, reducing the trial-and-error burden.
Transforming the Professional Journey with Peer Support
Running an accounting firm doesn’t have to be a solo endeavor. Structured peer groups provide more than solutions—they foster community, creating a network of peers who celebrate each other’s successes and offer support through challenges. Whether addressing burnout, capacity planning, or strategic shifts, these groups provide a blend of practical insight and emotional encouragement, empowering members to pursue sustainable growth.
Ben shared the advice his grandmother gave him: “Keep on moving and don’t shuffle your feet.” To Ben, that advice means there’s no better way to keep moving forward than with the support of peers who truly understand your journey.
To explore how structured peer support enhances your professional growth, listen to the full Who’s Really the BOSS? podcast episode featuring Ben Gabriel. Discover how other firm owners leverage peer groups’ power to build sustainable practices while staying true to their values and vision.
Rachel and Marcus Dillon, CPA, own a Texas-based, remote client accounting and advisory services firm, Dillon Business Advisors, with a team of 15 professionals. Their latest organization, Collective by DBA, supports and guides accounting firm owners and leaders with firm resources, education, and operational strategy through community, groups, and one-on-one advisory.